LIVING HUMAN BEING TO GREATNESS

“I have always cared about what people thought of me”. -         What would people say? -         What would people think? -         What if they don’t like it? Full of insecurities, wanting to be perfect all the time. I feared criticism, I never liked change, I didn’t like to present myself as weak, and I always had to look faultless. I lied to myself so much that I started believing my own lies. Pretending to be this independent, have it all, spoiled, and classy young lady who had so much to offer yet, could not support myself, much less afford to be independent. I admired hard-core movie villains so much that I started believing I was one; heartless, unemotional, hardcore woman who had nothing to lose, much less gain from other beings. I was playing such an amazing character and forgot it was my life (reality) and not fantasy movies that I watch. I blamed everyb...

ERA OF THE LIONESS Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain. Many women are deceived to think that their beauty is all they need. Bishop Dag Heward-Mills wrote in his book ‘Daughter you can do it’ that "Woman, your charm and beauty have an expiration date. They will not last forever. Better seek for spiritual things". It is the inner spiritual commitment of the man and anything else you are pursuing in life that makes them faithful to you and not your beauty. Do not believe that beauty is everything. Most of us are unaccomplished because of fear. The Most Common Fears In Women; The fear of not getting married   The fear of not having a child The fear of marrying the wrong person The fear of poverty and financial difficulties The fear of your husband becoming interested in someone else The fear of your children not doing well The fear of your husband not loving you anymore The fear of becoming a widow   The fear of in-laws The fear of not being liked by...

She grew up being applauded by her family for always excelling in her studies, and she has never experienced failure in her life. She finally got to University, after studying so hard to matriculate and finally go relax at University as she has always heard and been told "University is the place to relax and do as you please" she was told. She was rather enjoying university in her first semester as she got there because she would come to class only when she feels like it. The CA mark time came and she was not worried to see how little her CA's were, as she qualified for her exams, unaware of the consequences. She was still hooked on having fun and watching movies day and night even after having failed her second year major module. She had no purpose, no goals to achieve as she thought she has reached her destination already having made it to university.  She was not worried because she kept telling herself there are plenty of people who have made it in the corpo...

When you take the time to learn how to change your thinking and become a better thinker, you are investing in yourself. Gold mines tap out. Stock markets crash. Real estate investments can go sour. But a human mind with the ability to think well is like a diamond mine that never runs out. It’s priceless. “Learning to write is learning to think. You don’t know anything clearly unless you can state it in writing.”  A person should “think like a man of action—act like a man of thought.” What good is thinking if it has no application in real life? Thinking divorced from actions cannot be productive. Learning how to master the process of thinking well leads you to productive thinking. If you can develop the discipline of good thinking and turn it into a lifetime habit, then you will be successful and productive all of your life. You often hear someone say that a colleague or friend is a “good thinker,” but that phrase means something different to everyone. To one person it may...

Are successful people born or created? We all carry the capacity to become successful. We’re all equipped with our own special gifts and talents. But some of us lose our path a long the way. Life can be a cruel teacher. We learn to stop dreaming and start being realistic. People who become great break past the thinking society tries to place on them. They follow their dreams, accomplish something great, and leave their observers in a state of envy and awe. What makes them different? Are there common traits of people destined to make a dent in the universe? Absolutely. Even if you don’t posses these traits right now they can be learned and applied. Here are the traits of people destined for greatness. They’re Not Humble In the normal sense of the word. Most people pretend to be humble on the outside. Outward humility means that you don’t come off as cocky and try to appear modest. But on the inside you’re as arrogant as can be , because you feel like you deserve a bet...

Fellow Graduates...... We've all reached the last phase of dreaming. you've got to start putting pieces of your puzzle together. only you can make it happen, your parents have done their part.  Make it happen, put your life together and understand that "the dream is real, but the lifestyle is realer ". Think within yourself 'do I have what it takes, when I'm sick and still have to achieve my goals ?! are you ready for that, you ready for the dream, for the car, all the luxury you've dreamed of all your life?!  Stop living social media lifestyle "fake lifestyle" stop living something that you're not really living. the style of taking pictures by somebody else's car , acting like you got money when you don't. you all know that your reality lies at home, stop trying to please people and fantasising because you know very well what you got home. If you are faking it,  at least make sure you make it. you all want the lifestyle ...

CAN'T STOP; WON'T STO P!         You cannot achieve success without failure.  don't be afraid to close your eyes and dream;  but then open your eyes and see. For a lot of people; the distance between their dreams and reality is intimidating so they get stuck, and the only way forward is to be real about what's going to take to achieve those dreams. You have to be honest with yourself, you have to tell yourself the truth of what's going to take for you to be successful. It doesn't come easy,  you have to go out there and get it.     You can be anything you want to be if you're willing to work for it. Being anything "we want" sounds too good to be true, but of course it  can be true. The key is to keep willing to work very hard for whatever it is you want. Making progress everyday is the best way to succeed on our goals. It feels so good when you have done what you had to do and you've done it right.  Everyday we get a chanc...