LIVING HUMAN BEING TO GREATNESS

This isn’t the typical type of post from me today, It’s a somewhat  controversial post,  that I hope plenty of you can sink your teeth into (do not bite too hard,  this is not a debate). I'M A SIZE 4/28. " You will look better with a little meat on your arse " Is what they tell me. “why don’t I have boobs like my friends do?” “why do all my bones poke out at every angle?” “where are my hips?” “why am I so skinny?”  Body worries were the closest thing to my mind. WELL, I'M FED UP WITH IT. So, why does it bother you so much that I am skinny and don’t put on weight, why do the curves on my body boggle your mind and make you want to utter a word or two even three more and then end the sentence with what feels so mere to you ” Just saying”.  What is it with people and my body? "You are too skinny, You only have bones, you should eat more, try different vitamins. Why are you so skinny, when are you getting fat"? is what I'm to...

The question many ask me is 'why Living Human Being'? aren't we all Human Beings? is it not too general? The Answer is 'Yes, it is general, we are indeed all Living Human Beings'. that is the point i'm trying to get out into the world. Robin Sharma introduced the Living Human Being (LHB) concept in one of his book titled, " THE LEADER WHO HAD NO TITLE ". He wrote that leadership and success are everyone's birthright and that nobody succeeds beyond his or her wildest expectations unless he or she begins with some wild expectations.  How I understand this is that, we can all be Living Human Beings to greatness if we choose to. Life is all about making choices and decisions. Many of us feel superior, above others because of the titles we hold; be it in church, work, school, home or even in our community.  What the LHB concept brings forth is that, we do not need titles and labels to live for greatness. One can embrace their greatness ...

“I have always cared about what people thought of me”. -         What would people say? -         What would people think? -         What if they don’t like it? Full of insecurities, wanting to be perfect all the time. I feared criticism, I never liked change, I didn’t like to present myself as weak, and I always had to look faultless. I lied to myself so much that I started believing my own lies. Pretending to be this independent, have it all, spoiled, and classy young lady who had so much to offer yet, could not support myself, much less afford to be independent. I admired hard-core movie villains so much that I started believing I was one; heartless, unemotional, hardcore woman who had nothing to lose, much less gain from other beings. I was playing such an amazing character and forgot it was my life (reality) and not fantasy movies that I watch. I blamed everyb...

ERA OF THE LIONESS Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain. Many women are deceived to think that their beauty is all they need. Bishop Dag Heward-Mills wrote in his book ‘Daughter you can do it’ that "Woman, your charm and beauty have an expiration date. They will not last forever. Better seek for spiritual things". It is the inner spiritual commitment of the man and anything else you are pursuing in life that makes them faithful to you and not your beauty. Do not believe that beauty is everything. Most of us are unaccomplished because of fear. The Most Common Fears In Women; The fear of not getting married   The fear of not having a child The fear of marrying the wrong person The fear of poverty and financial difficulties The fear of your husband becoming interested in someone else The fear of your children not doing well The fear of your husband not loving you anymore The fear of becoming a widow   The fear of in-laws The fear of not being liked by...

She grew up being applauded by her family for always excelling in her studies, and she has never experienced failure in her life. She finally got to University, after studying so hard to matriculate and finally go relax at University as she has always heard and been told "University is the place to relax and do as you please" she was told. She was rather enjoying university in her first semester as she got there because she would come to class only when she feels like it. The CA mark time came and she was not worried to see how little her CA's were, as she qualified for her exams, unaware of the consequences. She was still hooked on having fun and watching movies day and night even after having failed her second year major module. She had no purpose, no goals to achieve as she thought she has reached her destination already having made it to university.  She was not worried because she kept telling herself there are plenty of people who have made it in the corpo...

When you take the time to learn how to change your thinking and become a better thinker, you are investing in yourself. Gold mines tap out. Stock markets crash. Real estate investments can go sour. But a human mind with the ability to think well is like a diamond mine that never runs out. It’s priceless. “Learning to write is learning to think. You don’t know anything clearly unless you can state it in writing.”  A person should “think like a man of action—act like a man of thought.” What good is thinking if it has no application in real life? Thinking divorced from actions cannot be productive. Learning how to master the process of thinking well leads you to productive thinking. If you can develop the discipline of good thinking and turn it into a lifetime habit, then you will be successful and productive all of your life. You often hear someone say that a colleague or friend is a “good thinker,” but that phrase means something different to everyone. To one person it may...